Secret admirer messages
Secret admirer messages that make their day
A good secret admirer message should make someone smile, not look over their shoulder. Here are ideas to write, a few rules to keep it kind — and a way to leave it on the Wall of Forever, signed or not.
Write your message
How to write a secret admirer message
The best secret admirer messages are warm, specific and light. They tell someone they were noticed, without asking for anything back.
- Notice something real. Their laugh, their kindness to the new person, the way they talk about their dog.
- Keep it short. Two or three sentences. Mystery works better than a long letter.
- Keep it kind. Compliment who they are, not just how they look.
- Don't pressure. No demands, no "guess who". Let them simply enjoy it.
- Know when to say who you are. One message is charming; a stream of anonymous ones is not. If you want to go further, sign the next one.
Secret admirer message ideas
- Someone noticed how you made the new girl feel welcome today. It was lovely to see.
- Your laugh is the best sound in this office. Just thought you should know.
- You probably don't realise how much brighter Mondays are when you're around.
- I hope today is as kind to you as you are to everyone else.
- You don't know me yet. That might change.
- For the person in the yellow raincoat who always holds the door: thank you.
The QR card
A card that gives nothing away
Write your message on a brick, then leave them a small card with only a QR code and one line. They scan it and read your words.
The brick shows only what you wrote, so if you don't sign it, the wall won't tell. That's the QR crush note.
Where to leave it
Inside a book they're borrowing, with their usual coffee, in the pocket of a jacket they lent you. Or simply send them the link: its preview in a chat says only that something is waiting.
Ready to say who you are? See how to confess your love, or write it on the wall and share the link yourself with a secret crush brick, or write a longer QR love letter.
Write your message
Short, kind and true. You can see it take shape as you write.
What should a secret admirer message say?
Something kind and specific that you noticed about them, in two or three sentences, without asking for anything back.
Will they know it is from me?
Only if you sign it. The brick shows only what you wrote, and the QR card carries just the code and an optional line.
Can anyone else read it?
The wall is public, so anyone could come across the brick. Write what you would be glad for them, and others, to read.
Is a secret admirer message a good idea?
A single warm, respectful message usually is. Keep it light, and if they seem uneasy, stop or tell them who you are.
How do I give it to them?
Print the QR card and leave it where they will find it, or send them the link.
How much is it?
From €5 for a single brick, paid once.
Make someone's day
A kind word, left on a wall that keeps it.
Write your message